Judging Someone..

What do you think about people who judge other people before knowing the real reason behind a story or before that person walk a mile in our shoes? When someone is judging me before knowing the real reason why I did certain things, I often feel offended or become a very sensitive person. The quote above express exactly those who often judge other people or maybe criticize other people before exactly find out the reason behind some actions. I'm not saying that we can't criticize or judge other people but it's better if we can understand the real story behind some attitude. More than that, it's better if we're able to walk in other people's shoes before actually giving critics or judgement. Choose your words wisely before you say anything about something, you will never know if your words can hurt someone else's feelings. I am sure none of us want to be hurt especially by words.

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Conversation..

Here's a story that is worth to be pondered. It's a conversation between God and a human, could be one of us. I know that sometimes we feel like complaining to God on the reason why our days seem so bad, why things can't run smoothly as we've planned before. But I do also know that God has a really specific plan on each thing happen to us. The conversation below make me more aware of those kind of plans that God has made for each one of us.

• Me (in a tizzy) : God, can I ask you something?....
• GOD: Sure. .....
• Me: Promise you won't get mad?....
• GOD: I promise....
• Me (frustrated):... Why did you let so much stuff happen to me today?....
• GOD: What do you mean?....
• Me: Well I woke up late...., GOD: Yes....
• Me: My car took forever to start...
• Me (growling): At lunch, they made my sandwich wrong and I had to wait....
• GOD: Hmmm....
• Me: On the way home, my phone went dead, just as I picked up a call...
• GOD: All right...
• Me (loudly): And to top it all off, when I got home, I just wanted to soak my feet in my foot massager and relax, but it wouldn't work. Nothing went right today! Why did you do that?...
• GOD: Well, let me see.... The death angel was at your bed this morning and I had to send one of the other angels to battle him for your life.
• I let you sleep through that....
• Me (humbled): Oh...
• GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that might have hit you if you were on the road....
• Me (ashamed):..........
• GOD: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick and I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work....
• Me (embarrassed): Oh....
• GOD: Your phone went dead because the person that was calling was going to give a false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered....
• Me (softly): I see God...
• GOD: Oh and that foot massager, it had a short that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark....
• Me: I'm sorry God.
• GOD: Don't be sorry, just learn to trust me.......in all things, the good and the bad.....
• Me: I WILL trust you God.....
• GOD: And don't doubt that my plan for your day is always better than your plan...
• Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, thank you for everything today....
• GOD: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God...

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Neat Interior Decor

I found these images below on weheart.co.uk, it is an interior of a hotel in Berlin called Plus One Berlin. I love the decor especially the bed. All the interior look so neat and everything fits in its own place. Other than that, the colors look so refreshing since the colors are all neutral colors, and the splash of blue color looks so stunning in the middle of the neutral colors.

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Quote of the day..

Quote of the day. I truly believe on the quote below. We need to open ourselves to all the things happen in our life in order to know the real meaning of life we're living.

“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness

we did not know was possible before”

-Rollo May-

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Plan For Life..

Do you have any plan for your life, plan in terms of the big one. I have several plans when I was pregnant, plans about how to raise my daughter, when to move to our new house, what to name our baby and so on. But lately I learn that sometimes life goes on not according to our plan. Sometimes, we have to accept that maybe God has planned some other things for us or maybe God has made other ways for us to reach our plan. That's what I call life's paths, maybe we weren't supposed to walk on one path instead we have to take other paths that might lead us to something better. Whatever it is, we always have to be grateful to what has been given to us =)

Pursue some path, however narrow and crooked,

in which you can walk with love and reverence.

~Henry David Thoreau~

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Bubble Hotel...

Oh wow..this is really a stunning and unbelievable hotel. I've never seen anything like it before. Look at the images below, those are the images of Attrap’Rêves, a bubble hotel in France. I like to see it but I am not really sure whether I want to experience sleeping over in one of those bubbles. I would surely try it with two conditions...first, someone will have to accompany me and two, a curtain is a must haha =) How about you?

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The Smile Upon Your Face

I am loving this song, and really loving it at this very moment. The song seems to fit my current life now, in which I would do anything for the love of the people I care the most in my life. Just like what Stevie Wonder has written on the lyrics "And for your love I would do anything just to see you smile upon your face"

Sharing Life..

Being a wife means that you always have someone to turn to when things went bad and also having someone to share the happiness with. Having a husband means you have to share parts of your life with your husband, I love it when I have this very special person that I can share everything to. Being a mother is another thing. Now that I have a family of three...I am now sharing my life with my husband and my daughter. I am overwhelmed with happiness when the three of us having a time together. I feel the love seeing my husband kiss our and hugging our baby. I am now seeing life in a different perspective. I know that having a family means that we can't be selfish since we have those we love so much to share this life with. I know there are some people who always think about themselves, not being care about other people. Here are some tips to stop being selfish.

How To Stop Being Selfish

1. Try to develop empathy for other people and living creatures. Allow yourself to imagine how they feel, what hurts them or makes them happy. Open your heart.
2. Look for ways to help; anticipate the needs and feelings of others. Join others who are kind and reciprocate kindness. Being with other selfish people, will not help you become a better person. We are very much defined by the company we keep.
3. Listen. There is a big difference between perceiving something, and actually consciously listening to what people have to say. Act as if you see the problem by being in his or her own shoes.
4. Don't interrupt people. Let them finish their sentence. Remember that your points can always wait. If it's urgent (like if you have to leave) say "excuse me".
5. Put the needs of other people before your own. Pay attention to the people in your life to find out what those needs are.
6. Think about the other person's personality. When choosing gifts or cards, buy something that reflects the personality of the other person. Don't just buy something because it's convenient.
7. Remember birthdays. Someone's feelings are bound to be hurt if you happen to forget their special day. Fortunately, you can always make it up to them if you forget.
8. Keep in touch with your friends, family and relatives.
9. Volunteer.
10. Be honest and loyal.
11. Consider the advice people in your life give you. Take it if it makes sense.
12. If you have to ask someone for a favor, offer to do something for them in return.
13. Compliment other people. Don't just go on about how great you are.
14. Make sure to be considerate and include everyone you know and like when inviting people to parties and events. No one likes to be left out.
15. Don't butt in front of people in line. Also, if you see someone in a walker or a wheelchair, slow down or help them instead of just cutting in front of them.
16. Be on time. If at all possible, call if you know you are going to be late.
17. Give your time or kindness to others that need it. Random acts of kindness also make you feel satisfied.
18. Do not take things people say or do so personal.

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Welcome Home My Baby Girl..

Hi there...I am back here at blog world =) It feels so good to be able to write and post something new on my blog again. I was busy at the hospital to take care of my baby girl. She was incubated for about 2 weeks and I couldn't be far from her. Felt like always want to be near my baby girl, Zilla. So, how are you all doing? Hope you're doing well. I am now entering the world of parenthood and motherhood especially. My baby girl is home now =) The first night was so tough I didn't sleep at all because she couldn't really adapted to the new environment. But the second night was running very smoothly. Thank God she's now able to adapt to our home as her new environment. Being a mother is not easy and taking care of a baby is a full time job but for sure it makes me happy and makes me feel complete. Now I have a family of three =) Here are some picture of my baby girl Zilla.

My baby girl...Naszilla

Hi everyone...maybe some of you wonder where I've been lately. I realized that I've been away for auquite a while. I wanna let you know that I have delivered My baby on Friday,23rd of March 2012. It's a baby girl, her name is Naszilla which means Cute in Persian :) well...i'm still at the hospital now because My baby still need few treatment before I can take her home. I will keep you update the news..see you all soon xoxo