Monday, February 1, 2010

Girls vs Grown Women

A friend of mine sent me this via Blackberry Messenger. And I think all the ladies out there should read this too. I know it's kind of a chain letter that you often got from e-mail forward but I really think that it's worth to read, especially for women=)

It's about how you can define yourself, whether you are still a "Girl" or you are a "Grown Woman". Read the list below and make a check on every point that applies to you. I've done mine and luckily I'm a Grown Woman, yay. I used to be the Girl type though =) I still remember how I used to behave when I was still in college, time flies and I didn't even realize that my attitudes and the way I behave toward things change eventually as I grow up.

Girls vs Grown Women

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, she doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't...

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.

Girls think a guy crying is weak..
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate, without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that was just one man.

Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, IGNORING all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends,
SO THEY TOO CAN PASS IT ON TO THEIR GROWN FRIENDS..... (images from andreamassari and gregkadelstudios)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a great resource!

boya arsila said...

thank you=)

lee woo said...

Over and over I marvel at the blessings of my life: Each year has grown better than the last. See the link below for more info.


#grown
www.ufgop.org