Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Four Arrangements...

Another great guidance and wisdom for us to live this life. This time is from Miguel Ruiz. He is a Mexican author. His most famous work that has been able to influence many people is called "The Four Arrangements". It's about how we can find ourself in a whole..within ourselves. Just those simple things that often do but we often do those things without thinking what those can do when we do those things sincerely. Here are the Four Arrangements:


1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

(article source: goodreads.com - image source: pink-promise.deviantart.com)

2 comments:

Srta. Gaete said...

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Grettings from chile (:

boya arsila said...

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So nice to read your comments...Thank you. Greetings from Indonesia =)